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Hormones depress me.
Pains bug me.
Final exam stresses me.
Constant tiredness controls me.
Would be nice to sit down, read my Philippa Gregory while sipping a cup of tea.
~Maria

November update

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Haven't update the blog for a while, just wanna let my blog knows that I didn't forget about it :)

For the wedding prep, most of the things are pretty much done:
Date - set
Theme colour - decided
Church - booked
Venue - booked
Photographer - booked
DJ/MC - booked
Gowns - rented
Make up artist - booked
Hair stylist - booked
Bridesmaid dress - waiting to be tailor made
Tux - rental account set up

So far the only items left are:
Floral
Cake
Invitations
Favours
Shoes
Photo location for engagement pics and wedding pics
Loose items (esp for Chinese traditions)
These can be taken care of by next year or gradually.

Many ppl surprised that we are so ahead of things. I'm surprised too, I didn't know we are ahead until everyone told us so (even our parents) especially knowing another bride who is 1 week earlier than our wedding date got nothing done.

I'm so proud of us, especially my hunni. He helps a lot a lot, which makes the whole preparation process smoother :) And our parents too, they gave us infos and helped us. They are the best :)
~Maria

Game time!

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Midterm is done. Time to play some Kirby!
Woohoo!



~Maria

Wedding prep....

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Received a msg from my friend who's recently married, telling me to enjoy and have fun preparing the wedding. Visiting all these wedding forums, all the girls seems pretty excited and busy and fun preparing for their wedding.

I didn't quite do anything except choosing my gowns, my bridesmaids and their dresses...the rest are taken care of by my fiancé.

Well, usually the wedding preparation is organized by the bride and her girls. But the I was told I should learn to trust, so I did, I let my fiancé take care of it.

I know he's being nice, just want me to focus on my study and leave the "fun" things for me to do (e.g. picking dress, colours...)Just doesn't realize, "trust" too much, becomes "rely".

I see him becomes stressed and tensed and less smiley on his face. Sometimes I really just want to help, in order to lower his stress. I hope its just tiredness that was on his face.

I guess I'm just a lazy bride-to-be!
~Maria

Life will be happier, when you take a step back.

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Not going to get or experience what I always wanted since a child. I can only envy others. Everyone knows it is an essential at that stage, but when getting it develops arguments and hurts relationships, why don't I just step back and put the damages to the minimum?

Try think the other way around to sooth the mind and heart. I'm sure there are ppl who can't get or afford what they dream about too. I'm just one of them.

Excitement stopped since the conflicts started. Yes, it just spoiled the mood. Maybe something better is coming along. You never know. I only want a happy & loving rest of my life. Not looking for troubles.

This is life. An uneven path, a map with no GPS, you have to create your own track to finish up your map. If you lost in the dark, try climb to the highest & look at the big picture or step back and get out of the darkness. Trust your guts, light will always be there for you.

Sorry to my parents, all relatives and friends who look forward to attend and share the happiness, most likely your trip will be saved.

~Maria
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